Category Archives: Romance wednesdays

I’m A Dead Beat Side Guy… I’ve fallen for Her :(


I’m a dead beat side guy I hate not being able to
write poems about her
Gabrielle Union type of character she smells
like a clean jump shot

Hate not being able to woman crush her and
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Vodka, Ice Cream & T’issues’… “What Every Women Needs To Know” By Pamela Kunene


 “If you’re in a relationship and all you do is cry every day, you’ll need to stop and ask yourself, ‘Am I dating a human or an onion” – Unknown

I am not sure who came up with this quote but I found it hilarious the first time I read it, well not anymore. I knew that a lot of women put up with a lot crap that men put them through, but after the conversation I recently had with my friend, I got exasperated, infuriated and all sorts of emotions you can think of.

She got into a relationship with a guy she knew had a girlfriend, unfortunately she agreed to an arrangement that when the girlfriend is around she must know her place (give the guy some space to be with the main chick). That didn’t bother her much because the girlfriend was never around anyways, so technically she was the majority shareholder and the girlfriend was obviously the minority shareholder, and besides that Luther Vandross says “Love the one you are with”. Read the rest of this entry »


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No Valentine? Yeh So What? By Pamela Kunene

I went for supper a few weeks ago with one of my girls, at one of those quiet restaurant where they play slow jam music. She excused herself for a couple of minutes to go to the rest rooms. You know how girls always want to look pretty throughout the night. While she was gone I ear wigged a conversation between 2 young women sitting very close to our table. One of them was frustrated that waiting for “The One” is taking forever. She is on her 20s, got a car, an apartment, a good paying job, the only thing missing is “Mr Right”. Before I could hear how her friend would respond my girl came back, and I am thinking are you jesting me (I was about to hear the best part of the conversation).  But anyways, clearly this young successful woman is halfway to being the perfect wife for the so called “The One” she is longing for.

After that night I began to wonder if that is all we as young folks think about? Finish our studies, acquire all that we can, and find “the one” and apparently all this should happen in our 20s? I recently realize how much we are setting limits for ourselves, these are the years we should use to create a fulfilled life by making conscious choices about what’s meaningful. We should be embracing our young-adult years and connecting to something bigger than ourselves. There is so much more, like personality, it is shaped more during our 20s than any time before or after. We should keep in mind that we will only be in our 20s for 10 years.

I read something about Kim Kardashian wanting to study further, I must say I have so much respect or her for that. Had she taken nudes, the story would’ve been on every news feed, but because it’s this story not so many people know about it. For the past decade and a half she’s been on this life or death mission to get famous, that’s been her whole focus, versus broadening her horizons intellectually.

I am not disputing the fact that you could and would have “the one” and start a family in your 20s, I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. But to those on a roller-coaster ride, I mean those that are waiting and panicking and stressing about getting old. Make sure that you have embraced this time as a single somebody. There are things to appreciate about being single. Like Fun, Freedom, Adventure the list goes on and on….

By Pamela Kunene

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Posted by on February 10, 2016 in Romance wednesdays


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INTIMACY “Shhh I Want You” … By Moshibudi Thatego Madia #vdayspecial


I want those

Late night

Spooned up

So tight

Type of evenings


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Posted by on February 1, 2016 in Art, Romance wednesdays


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How My Morning Alarm Took Away My Simonique… Flabo The unAuthordox

You see I had to put her name in the poem coz I know it would
catch your attention…

Name so unique it just rolls off the tongue…. Like ‘hey Simonique’

Okay maybe she a made up fugure in my mind
But bear with me as I narrate her beauty so vividly into a human form

Catch me telling stories about her they all say I’m dreaming

Well at least when I go to sleep she keep me company…

My friends tell stories of heart-breaks, gold diggers, semi-side-chicks
and girlfriends that can’t cook

Well I tell stories of fairy tales, blissful dreams , midnight 7 colour meals
guaranteed to have me wake up full…
They wake up to live while I go to bed to be woken up by her

A loud ring in my ear that almost had my eardrum explode….
Gawd dammit there goes my morning alarm…
So it’s goodbye today Simonique
I’ll see you in my dreams someday…

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Posted by on January 27, 2016 in Art, Romance wednesdays


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Research Shows That People Who Go To Gym & Exercise Frequently Are Less Likely To Cheat On Their Partners… By Flabbo


Research Shows that people who go to gym are less likely to cheat. Why is this you ask? well working out, taking jogs and lifting weights take up some significant time one’s life meaning you have less time to spend on other things, like meeting new people or going on a macking spree with the boys during the night. Read the rest of this entry »

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Posted by on December 30, 2015 in Romance wednesdays


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Why Women Are Game Changers… By Mzomuhle Msomi


Missandei: “Valar morghulis.”
Khaleesi: “Yes. All men must die, but we are not men.”

Ever considered that women could change the game. Back in varsity there was a period at res where men went through an intense bodybuilding phase . It was simple “If you wanna get laid get sexy”. The pressure was on! This thing of conjuring females with ‘movies and wine’ in your cosy room was kaput. That movie and wine had to come with a 6 pack and biceps, if not it was tissue and vaseline for you. Read the rest of this entry »


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